Have you ever wondered if life was simply a matter of luck or fortune? Why some people are successful and others fall short of reaching their potential? I’ve learned that there’s a natural process by which success or failure takes place in our lives and studies show 5 steps to prove it:

1. Programming creates Beliefs

2. Beliefs create Attitudes

3. Attitudes create Feelings

4. Feelings determine Actions

5. Actions create Results

Success begins with your Programming! Thus, in order to achieve desired results, it starts with positive programming. What we’ve accepted from the outside world or told ourselves since the day we were born has programmed our minds whether the belief is right or wrong. The most effective way to override this programming is SELF-TALK.

“I AM…”?(The Most Powerful 2 Words!) It’s this phrase where you are painting a completed new picture of yourself, the way you really want to be, handing it to your subconscious, and saying, “This is the me I want you to create! Forget all the bad programming I gave you before. This is your new program, now let’s work!” For example:

I AM organized & in control of my life.

I AM healthy, energetic, enthusiastic, and I’m going for it! Nothing can stop me now.

I like who I am.

I AM in tune, on top, and in touch. I have determination, self-belief, and drive.

I AM living the life I choose, and I choose whats right!

“I AM…” replaces helpless “Cant’s” with vibrant, “You better believe I GOT THIS- HELL YEA I CAN BABY!” This is the Self-Talk that challenges us to do battles with our fears. It stirs us to action, fills us with empowerment, and plants our feet firmly on the bedrock of success! If this is all new to you like it is for me, start by listening to anything you may be saying to yourself that could be working against you, turn it around, and start using the Self-Talk that works for you!

Can you imagine going through the rest of your life with that kind of positive Self-Talk on your side? Its yours for the taking. It’s yours the moment you decide to choose a better way. You deserve the best out of your life. Perhaps it’s time to do something about it.